Reference for Bava Batra 267:3
דתנן מעשה בבית חורון באחד שהיה אביו מודר הימנו הנאה והיה משיא בנו ואמר לחבירו הרי חצר וסעודה נתונין לך במתנה ואינן לפניך [אלא כדי] שיבא אבא ויאכל עמנו בסעודה
For we learnt: Once it happened at Beth Horon with a person whose father was forbidden, by a vow, to derive any benefit from him. Celebrating the marriage of his [own] son, he said to his friend, 'The court and the banquet are presented to you as a gift, but they are at your disposal only with the object that [my] father comes and dines with us at the banquet'. [The other] said to him, 'If they are mine, behold, they are consecrated to the Temple'.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Lit., 'heaven'. ');"><sup>5</sup></span> The first said to him, 'I did not give you my possessions that you shall consecrate them to the Temple!' 'You gave me yours', said the other, 'only [with the object] that you and your father might eat and drink and be reconciled to one an other while the sin<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' For the breach of the vow; since the presentation of the court and banquet was mere sham. ');"><sup>6</sup></span>